Embarrassment

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Embarrassment

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A self-conscious emotion arising from real or imagined exposure to a social audience following an unintentional violation of social norms or expectations. Typically involves a sense of fleeting unwanted attention and mild disruption to self-presentation rather than the deeper self-threat of shame.

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Embarrassment
A self-conscious emotion arising from real or imagined exposure to a social audience following an unintentional violation of social norms or expectations. Typically involves a sense of fleeting unwanted attention and mild disruption to self-presentation rather than the deeper self-threat of shame.
Self-conscious emotions
Emotions — including embarrassment, shame, guilt, and pride — that require self-awareness, awareness of social standards, and evaluation of the self against those standards. They emerge later in development than basic emotions, typically after 18 months as objective self-awareness develops.
Embarrassment display
A reliable nonverbal signal identified by Keltner & Buswell (1997): gaze downward and away, a controlled smile with lip presses and intermittent smile suppression, face-touching gestures, and sideways head movements. The display is distinct from amusement and appears cross-culturally.
Appeasement signal
A social signal that communicates submission, norm-acceptance, and non-threat. Embarrassment functions as an appeasement signal: showing embarrassment after a social mistake communicates that you care about social norms, which increases observers' trust and liking toward you.
Blushing
An involuntary reddening of the face associated with embarrassment and social exposure. Because it cannot be faked, blushing serves as an honest signal of social anxiety and norm awareness. Darwin devoted a chapter of The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals to blushing, calling it the most peculiar and most human of all expressions.